Friday, October 27, 2017

Do You Speak “Christianese?”



It’s a language spoken by those meshed into church culture.  “Churchy” Christians speak it fluently!  Let me illustrate.

“I’m so glad I’m saved, regenerated and born again.  I appreciate His wonderful mercy and grace in my life.  Every day I seek His face, asking Him to meet every need of my life, as I place my hands in His nail-scarred hands.  I ask Him to lead, guide and direct me in His perfect will.   I plead the blood over all the details of my life.  I invite Him to daily convict me of my sin that I might experience His sanctifying grace.  I look forward to each and every Lord’s Day, when I gather with those of like-precious faith to lift up holy hands and to hear messages from God’s Holy Word.  I enjoy listening to the testimonies of God’s saints.  What about you?  Have you been washed in the blood of the Lamb?”

Did you enjoy the preceding cliché festival?

I’m really not trying to poke fun at what I call “Christianese,” the language of many who hide behind church doors and who seldom, if ever, mingle with those outside the world of church. But I do want you to understand that while we’re not of the world, we’re still in it; and we need to communicate the Gospel in ways that those outside the realm of church life can clearly understand.

I am on a quest to remind Christians everywhere to re-think their manner of communication to those who are far from God and who need to find new life in Christ. I believe I’m accurate when I say the world knows more about what the church is against, than what the church is for!  I still laugh about the little girl who after returning from church was asked by her father, “What did the pastor preach about today?”  She replied, “Sin.”  He then said, “What did he say about it?”  She replied, “I think he’s against it!” 

Law-based preaching seemingly dominates our pulpits, while anti-grace proponents continue to harshly judge and criticize those who are trying to make a difference in a generation that continues to remain suspect of the church’s real message.   

Perhaps like you, I surf Facebook quite regularly.  And I’m constantly amazed at how predictably many Christian streams communicate the gospel message.  I find that a lot of Christian ministries forget their target audience.  They speak “Christianese” to people who either have never darkened the door of a church, or who know little about the Christian Faith.  And sadly, communication breakdowns continue to create barriers.

Then, I regularly note that Christians and churches in general tend to “talk down” to people.  I often say, “You don’t achieve positive results with a negative (condescending) message.” The Gospel of Jesus Christ is earth’s greatest, most compelling message.  Why then do we major on what’s wrong with people?  Why do we often emphasize what we’re against? 

I completely understand that God has not gone soft on sin, but I don’t believe we have to beat people up with a hard-sell message.  Many sermons and churches communicate with law-based Bible thumping instead of hope-filled messages.  We often hear, “You should…” “You never…” You always…”  These three phrases, when used by spouses during marital spats incite further anger; so what makes us think our listeners are going to embrace what we say if we constantly tell them “what they’re not doing?” Remember, “the Law came through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ” (John 1:17).   

In addition, we have more than enough angry messengers.  Perhaps some preachers who say, “We love the sinner, but hate their sin,” struggle with personal biases and anger issues that override any good they attempt to achieve.  I recently heard a minister talking about “those sick-o fags,” all the while discerning anger, even hate in his voice.  Angry preaching and angry preachers always discredit our Gospel of love.

I also grow weary of ministers criticizing other churches and other well-meaning, sincere ministers of the Gospel.  This serves only to aid and abet the enemy camp.  Why would any Christian sit under a minister who constantly criticizes and maligns other churches outside their stream of theology and practice?  This anger-driven type of ministry smacks of self-righteousness.  The world needs to see our love for one another in the face of disagreement. I applaud all the Christ-honoring churches in Jefferson!

Yes, Jesus is Holy.  Yes, He is the way to heaven.  Yes, He wants us to serve Him with our whole heart.  But on the flipside, the Apostle Paul reminds us that “God demonstrates His own love for us in this: That while we were sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).  And He needs us, His representatives of grace, to speak this language in a clear and effective manner.   

Always remember, while “Christianese” is a major language spoken by many church-goers, it has a lot of dialects, and they too tend to bring conflicting messages to a world that is desperately looking for relevant answers to life’s every day problems. Perhaps we need to quit defending what we believe and engage people out of a broken heart. 

Do we hate what sin does in peoples’ lives, or are we more interested in setting people straight according to the dictates of our personal convictions?  The late evangelist, David Wilkerson used to tell preachers, “Sermons that have not been wept over have no place in the pulpit.” Perhaps he was right.

Let’s determine as God’s people to speak in understandable terms to those who are far from God and never darken the door of our churches.  Let’s communicate on their level of understanding and make this wonderful Gospel relevant and easy to embrace. I’ve heard it said for years, “Preach the Gospel and use words if necessary.”


Beer and the Richter Scale


I admit it.  I don’t like beer.  It’s not because I’ll go to hell in a hand basket if I drink it; I simply don’t like the taste of beer.  My choice of beverage is normally coffee.  Can I get an “AMEN?”

Back when, I was taught that alcoholic beverages were a “no-no” for believers.  Our teetotaler theology was non-negotiable.  Some went so far as to say, “Real Christians avoid alcoholic drinks – period!”  I don’t know about that, but battle lines continue to be drawn.

And I do know that if my wife and I appeared on Facebook eating dinner with a cold brew on our table, the subsequent backlash and tremors would measure at least 8.2 on the spiritual Richter Scale!  I feel my witness for the Lord would definitely be compromised.  That’s my conviction only!

Before you chew your knuckles to the bone, remember that non-Christians often kid about buying their six-packs and getting wasted.  And before you chew your knuckles completely off, I get the “in moderation” thing!

At any rate, many would lose respect for us.  I know this to be true.  Why? Right or wrong, many would say that Roger and Lori should not be drinking beer because they’re pastors. Opinions are many and strong!!  And sadly, many Christians are willing to declare war on one another, even if it means deeply judging and maligning one another. 

On the flipside, I refuse to put my personal convictions on to others in the name of biblical truth.  Alcoholic beverages have always been a source of contention in the church.  Those “for” and those “against” continue to justify their stands – both using Bible verses! 

What’s my point? 
 
We tend to single out beer and a few other things, all the while struggling with our own less obvious issues.  I tire of Christians and non-Christians alike when they judge others who disagree with their likes and dislikes.  Be careful not to put your personal convictions on to others.  Don’t forget.  We have a private life and a public life.  May they both bring honor to Jesus; and since He has saved us, let’s allow Him to perform any housekeeping needed in our lives.

It seems to me that the real issue is not beer, but anything that steals our affections away from the Lord.  When I stand before the Lord, I’m just sure He will not ask, “Did you drink beer?”  But, He may ask, “Did you do everything you could to make My name great in the earth?”

Oh, by the way, another reason I avoid alcohol is because I don’t want anyone on the edge to fall away from the Lord.  By this I mean not becoming a stumbling block to those for whom the jury is still out regarding their personal choice.

May my life speak well of Him who saved me by His grace.  But again, beer is not the real issue.  A final thought:  I think we can all agree that getting intoxicated is a no-brainer and something that should not be seen among Christ followers.  Allow the Holy Spirit to always control your life.  Paul makes this abundantly clear in Ephesians 5:18, “Do not get drunk on wine (beer), which leads to debauchery.  Instead, be filled with the Spirit.”


Wednesday, October 18, 2017

It's National "What" Day?



It seems we’re always looking for something to celebrate.  Americans sure are party animals!  I get tickled at some of the celebrations:

·      National Chocolate Day (Yummy)
·      National Pierogie Day (for our Hungarian friends)
·      National Angel Food Cake Day (Can’t wait for Carrot Cake Day)
·      National Moldy Cheese Day (Really?)
·      National Fossil Day (That reminds me, I saw Godzilla with his size fifteens at Walmart the other day)
·      National Kick Butt Day (Go Cavs)
·      National Clergy Appreciation Day (I like this one)

And of course, the potential celebrations run off the page.  Go ahead.  Celebrate to your heart’s content.  What celebratory days do you suggest for our daily national calendar? 

If I may, let me suggest several calendar celebrations specifically for Christ followers.  How about…

·      National Forgive Your Spouse Day
·      National Honor and Respect Others Day
·      National No Gossip Day
·      National Pray for those in Authority Day
·      National Get Along with Everyone Day
·      National Keep Your Mind Pure Day
·      National It’s not about Me Day
·      National Golden Rule Day
·      National No Negativity Day
·      National No Drama Day
·      The list is inexhaustible

Did you notice that the National Day Celebrations in these two lists move generally from “doing” to “being?” 

Here’s the bottom line:  We don’t need a special day on the calendar to act like followers of Christ and to make a difference in “our world,” or the sphere of influence God gives us.  The adage is still true which says, “WHO you are is so loud that I can’t hear what you’re saying.”

We celebrate (teach) what we know, but we impart WHO we are.  And that’s worth celebrating every day of the year!


Saturday, October 14, 2017

A Support Group for a Bunch of Broken People?



Years ago my late friend, Dr. Richard Dobbins said, “ The primary role of the pastor is to “tend the flock” (shepherd). The secondary role of the pastor is to assist in the “healing of the saved’” (discipleship).   After we come to Christ, the question then becomes, “How much of the saved man will be saved?”  Let me explain.

Salvation may be an event, but it is lived out in process.  I love how John Wesley explained it.  He said, “I’m saved, I’m being saved, and I shall be saved.”  Then why do we at times expect perfection from those who have been forgiven?  We are often known for giving others flack instead of cutting them slack!

2 Corinthians 5:17 says it this way: “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

Dr. Dobbins suggests the following parenthetical additions:  “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away (and continue to pass away); behold, all things have become new (and continue to become new).”

Always remember, Christians are not perfect, just forgiven!  We should actually expect “warts” in the lives of other believers!  And on the flipside, we should never use our “warts” to excuse our on-going issues.  “The phrase, “That’s just who I am,” should never be used to justify sinful patterns or socially-unacceptable quirks that bring harm to others. 

Pastors have the unique calling and privilege to help Christians “grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ.”  My wife and I see the local church as a big support group for hurting, broken people.  The ground at the foot of the cross is level, where the same grace is afforded to us all.  Again, we’re all in process. 

Come grow with us at Hope Community Church!


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